THE BRIDGE / BETWEEN DINNERS
YOUR PEOPLE ARE ALREADY IN THE ROOM.
You just haven't met them yet. Map what you need and what you can give, and let our hosts help the right humans find each other.
Illustration: you at the centre, linked to examples of people who might share a table, such as a coder, a gardener and a retired teacher. These are examples, not confirmed attendees.
01 / PICK YOUR DOOR
TWO WAYS IN. BOTH COUNT.
Start with The Fire
For when you know what lights you up and brings you passion.
Start with Where You Are
For when you feel stuck, carrying heavy constraints, or need to honour current realities.
02 / SET YOUR DIAL
DO YOU NEED A LIL PUSH RIGHT NOW?
- I just need to be witnessedHold space, zero advice
- I need a gentle nudgeWarm check-in, small prompt
- Give me the pushAccountability and action
03 / ASK AND OFFER
EVERYONE NEEDS SOMETHING. EVERYONE HAS SOMETHING.
Your ask
What or who do you need in your corner?
Your offer
What can you offer someone else at The Table?
04 / HOW THE MATCHING WORKS
TECH SUGGESTS. HUMANS DECIDE.
- 01Map
Five quick steps: your door, your capacity, who you want to become, your craft, your ask and offer.
- 02Spot
Opt in and we suggest who at your gathering might be good company for you.
- 03Host check
A real human host reviews every suggestion. Nothing is sent automatically.
- 04Meet
Approved intros come from the host's own email, or over dinner. No match is guaranteed.
You leave with a takeaway card: your north star, your strengths, one next step and a friendly outreach script you can send yourself.
05 / KEEP THE THREAD
ONE THING. OR A BREATHER.
Prefer something lighter? The private check-in saves one thing you want to move forward, with a return link just for you. No account, no app, no scoreboard.
The fine print
Both tools are optional, free and do not book a seat. No reminder emails are running yet, so save your link. Your written reflections stay private unless you tick sharing; support requests are visible to organisers. Questions or need help taking part? Email the SoCo crew.